It's amazing that so many people are apparently so bad at something so simple. I suspect it's because they think sex is primarily a physical act when it's really just the opposite. If you THINK something is attractive, sexy or arousing then it is.
And it works both ways too, I've known some women that couldn't have been sensual if their life depended on it. Attitude and approach counts for a LOT.
Aviation analogy to arousal
Men: push glider off cliff
Women: prep shuttle for launch
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